0 'V̶a̶l̶e̶n̶t̶i̶n̶e̶s̶ D̶a̶y̶'

To all you people that have up 'V̶a̶l̶e̶n̶t̶i̶n̶e̶s̶ D̶a̶y̶'  I guess you figured out your position ...... ♪Oh Na Na Your Just A Link!...  
These are the reasons to hate Valentines Day

FOR GIRLS

1 You can’t moan about it. If you’re single, you sound like a cobwebbed old granny; if you’re in a relationship, everyone assumes you’re getting bun.

2 There is nothing more disappointing than a man you’d previously picked as husband material expressing his romantic intent with a card of a sheep and a pun on the word “ewe”. EWWWWW!

3 With the stress, all-over body shaving/waxing and preparing to create a romantic day/night like everyone else, Valentine’s Day is like pre-mini-wedding . .. but in February, the dampest, coldest, shittiest month of the year. Nobody should be expected to get married in February. And certainly not every year.

4 It produces God awful verse, such as, “How we gain yearly, from the love we share dearly”.

5 All the display pictures and shit of perfect, coupleds only show that everyone else is far more in love and having heaps more sex than you are. #Peak

6 The girl you most dislike will receive the best gift ever, and, you just have to pretend like your indifferent to it. Right?

7 There’s no such thing as a successful Valentine’s Day. I have NEVER had one. Even if you do get a mystery card/gift/bunch of flowers, it will almost certainly be from someone insultingly ugly. but it still something right?

8, 9, 10 BECAUSE VALENTINE'S DAY IS JUST AN OVER COMMERCIALIZED SHIT DAY!

FOR BOYS

1 It makes you hate your fellow single man. You have to cough up tons of money just to please your bitch and pretend to want to do it.

2 It makes men do stupid things, like light candles and stuff that you're only doing because we told you that some other Hot Stud in a movie did it and it's "cute"...

3 ....Which leads to an argument Because, actually, I really wanted you to do it, but I had to tell you exactly what to do and how to do it, that is so unromantic, isn’t it?

4 It’s such a rip-off. Flowers, Dinner, Nighttime activity planning I'd prefer the cash instead lemmi take me shopping zeen?

5 In new relationships, whether or not you take her out or buy her a gift speaks volumes about “where you’re at”, way before you’re ready for the “are we having a relationship?” chat. (Like you were ever ready for it anyway.)

6 You treat her like shit every other day of the year so because you treat her special today, that means you love her eternally right?

7 Valentine’s Day, it's just another day in February to you why does she care about it so much.

18 You have more than one girlfriend shiiiiitttt, How are you going to manage being a Playa on Valentines Day?

19 Other than Pussy What do you really get out of it?

20 There is nothing more disappointing than the woman you plan on marrying not even laughing at the funny card you gave her because she doesnt think it's romantic enough. Psssssh!


Just my views. Hope you enjoyed the post. xxo

0 Valentine *cough cough* International Single Awareness Day

Valentine’s day is a day to celebrate love, hope & alleged romance. A day to tell our loved ones how much they mean to us.  But what happens with all those who just broke up with their partners? Those who were deceived and do not want to trust in love again?  What happens with all those people who are still searching for their soul mate despite years and years of unfruitful searching? Or those who are desperate to find someone to love because they do believe in love.  What happens to those who wait in hope that this year their “Valentine” will finally realize that they love them… but they won’t; and they will spend another year alone waiting in hope with a sour smile in their faces.

Honestly, Valentine ’s day might have started as a day to celebrate love but nowadays it has become another day to force people to go out of their way for things that they don’t need or they don’t want to buy in order to express their love.  Most men know that they will be in trouble if they don’t buy an expensive present for their girl.  So, they buy an expensive present, not as an expression of their love, but as a way to "buy" their way out of trouble.  Like in Monopoly, they are buying their “get out of jail” cards.

Please don't take me wrong, I'm not bitter in the least, I am a romantic person, a dreamy girl (sometimes) who is still looking for her happy ever after.  I believe(d) in love.  but I hate to see how Valentine’s day is just such an overly famous day for all the wrong reasons.  Not just that, but I see my single friends, those who by choice or force are alone and I feel sorry for them on Valentine’s day.  Not because they are single, oh no!  I feel sorry because all the ones who are in couples make them feel as if they were missing something just because they get a silly little card and a box of chocolates on Valentine’s Day.
Because if I say that I hate Valentine’s Day, most people automatically will think that I am either jealous or I am just having a very rough period in my love life.  which might be true, but most people do not understand how someone who is happy in a relationship cannot like and look forward to Valentine’s Day just to get presents ...WHY!

1. I never know what to buy a guy as a Valentine’s present.
2. It has been horrible every time I have been single.  All my friends in a relationship had something special planned for February 14^thand they felt sorry for me if I said I was staying in watching TV or reading a book.  It didn’t bother me at all staying in like any other day, but I felt humiliated so i buy myself Icecream every year regardless.
3. When I have been in a relationship the presents have rarely been up to romantic standards.  I am a very romantic person.  I expect Prince charming to bring the moon down for me.  So IF he doesn't (which I know he won't)… that is disheartening.  The worst part is having to pretend to be pleasantly surprised and thankful that he remembered Valentine’s day in the first place. 
4. There are so many beautiful poems in classic literature that they put in these joke cards. Especially if you come to the realization that you won't be in a relationship with this person in 5 years and that it's all bullshit anyways.
5. All the couples you know look so in love on Valentine’s day that it sucks!  You know he is double timing your friend, but you don’t say anything because she's "so in love with him", and anyway it is not your business.  But all the display pics of false perfect love just want to make you throw up.  You know that later that night they will be arguing again about something stupid... been there done that 
6. I hate to hear the competitiveness between girls on Valentine’s Day.  Someone boasting about their enormous bouquet of flowers, while the other one claims that her man really loves her because he never takes her out but tonight they are going to the best restaurant in the city.  Yet he never takes her out except on Valentine’s Day, and she boasts...  Poor chic!
7. If you are not in a relationship and you go out with a girlfriend on Valentine’s Day, the odds are that anyone who sees you will think you are a lesbian... fucking Cliche don't!
8. Valentine’s Day makes men do stupid things like shaving the hair on their back in a heart shape. #Thatsfunnny. I need to meet a man like that just to laugh at him!
9. Most men are not very romantic and you will end up disappointed but you’ll boast about your present any given opportunity you get anyway.  It's sad. I just don't agree with it.

Spread your legs & Spread Love everyday of the year that's what i say :)

Why MUST we celebrate love one day a year?

In my ideal world I would like to be romanced every single day of the year.  I would like to feel loved and needed every day, not just one silly day in the calendar.  Why not celebrate love every time we can? I don’t need a special day or a special occasion to tell my boy that I love him that I am head over heels about him.    I don’t need someone to remind me in the calendar that it is time to send him a loving card or a message.  He doesn’t need a day marked in the calendar to make me feel special. Everyday is special in my house ;)... unless we're arguing then... hmmm

0 What does it feel like to be Happy?

You'll never figure out real love
Never get real love & Its so crazy
I had everything else figured out until I lost "real love"
& For some strange reason I can never find what real love is all about
Not a doubt, everything in the world I figured out but I could never seem to grasp what real love was about and if it existed. Does it exist?

Don't you think I would sacrifice my life for all the fame just to see the flashing lights?
Do you doubt I would sacrifice life

There is nothing I could buy t substitute the feeling
There is no lotion I could put on to soothe the burning searing scars on my skin from the pain i've held and felt and inflicted on myself
There is no drugs that they could sell to prevent me from subconsciously feeling aware that i'm alone
No remedy to get my heart out of this hell & my mind out of this jail
There is no hourglass that I could buy and tip it upside-down that could turn back the time.
There is no secret place I could fly to get away from reality
It couldn't bring back the pieces of my life that i'm missing
Real love in life, what does it feel like?
I ask you tonight...
What does it feel like, To live a happy life
I just want to be a h a p p y but Happiness doesn't come to people like me
They say I give good advice but i'm never in a position to take control of my own life.
Just like Pinocchio's story is "I just want to be a real boy"
my story goes I want a real boy.

Isn't it funny that Pinocchio lied and that’s what kept him from finding what he really desired
I tell the truth and I keep getting lied to keeping me from attaining the solitude I seek

Its like im looking for something out there trying to find something
I look in the mirror trying to see me and see nothing, or rather what I see isn't the me I recognize, or the me I that I used to be

Not some facade on tv that no-one can really feel
No Jersey Shore, No Hills, No Soap Opera , This is a real crumbling life.Did I ever really have the confidence...
For everybody that sees you and say 'looka that ho'

do you think it never affected me. Do you think it didn't hurt me, do you think I had on a Iron shield that the stigmas just bounced of and I didn't care?
For everybody that sees you cryin' and says 'you oughta be happy' but what if i can't be happy?

is this the look of someone happy? read between the lines.

& there is no Puppeter to guide & help me, noone who cares about me enough right beside me
The only one left that was always behind me I don't seem to know him anymore,
I cant call him when i need to anymore I just  .........cant...
In the back of my mind is the memory of me when I was little and growing up was a distant dream

And the infamous things i got framed for
And the day I moved to England
Maybe the result of things.... that was all my fault
Chasing something that i discovered would never be real
Just because of those fucking Disney films
And when the facade fades
And the clothes are gone and i'm naked am i any different to what everyone thinks i am?
And the 'hoe status' was left
Tell me what is left?

The most valuable people in my life say one day you’ll find your way
That's what they say
but the sad reality of it I don't believe in reality and I don't believe in YOU or them anymore.